Trash Towers Dictionary

a/c - art crap. CK's fond term for the means of assuaging my addictions.

BSD - Been Seen Done. Devised while travelling the Great Ocean Road on CK's first Australian trip. Every lookout point was as fabulous as the previous and we got a little bit magnificenced out so rather than pull in we would shout BSD and keep driving.

Now general usage for when a situation is over or beyond repair.

bob - noun. Princess Curly- Wurly's word meaning all sweets, chocolate and yummy things.

blurry - (pr. to rhyme with hurry) Sth African/Zimbabwean term and my favourite polite swearword. Means kind of like bloody but usuable in mixed company. See 'Feck' & 'Eejit'

eejit - Irish term meaning 'idiot'. Suitable for use in polite company. Used by my Aunt Marion.

feck - Irish term used by my Aunt Marion so it cannot be rude!

ho-ho -(pr. with a short o). Zimbabwean word for bugs.

lani - (sp?) Sthn African word - means posh, expensive, elegant, stylish.

La Villa de Lamaca - (translates from Ital. as The houseof snails. My 'green' house out in the garden with all my a/c (ref: above) stuff in it. Built by CK and Babyman for me. CK lost his fingerprints over it. I cannot actually get in there at the moment!

lubbard - derived from 'beloved'. Devised by my then two y.o. son b/c unlike his sister he could not say 'Mother Beloved'. Usually prefaced by a noun.

OfStEd - Office for Standards in Education. Bossy civil servants who would like to see every child in formal, full-time education from birth.

Q.I. - Quite interesting.

terence - sobriquet applicable to all small children. Originated with one 'borrowed' child who could not pronounce ' terrorist' .

TG - exclamation. Thank God! An interesting choice for the dictionary of a recovering Catholic but is a phrase used by my Irish family and is now deeply fixed in my conversational repetoire. (reference also PG - Please God).

TGTH - The Great Trip Home. Alt. known as 'How I spent Christmas and N.Y 2008.









Thursday, 7 January 2010

left behind

This morning both my children left the house independently.



destuctoBoy set off to meet with friends in the park to sledge his day away.

Watching him walk down the drive I was reminded of a poem.


"Seeding the unknown future
we birthed our final child
to delight our age.

Now only at his half year
he moves away
determined to follow
his own hidden pathways
and we are overwhelmed by his desertion


until he smiles
back over his shoulder.
(Daniel at 1/2. Josie Stainsby. 1982)



6 comments:

Mary said...

Well that certainly brought tears to my eyes...

Moogsmum said...

Oh Trash - that's just about perfect. I have that heart in mouth feeling of seeing your offspring going their own way.

Beautiful post.

Also, incredibly struck by just how much that independant grown-up young man looks like his sister in that final photo.

Don't tell either of them I said so!!

xxx

p.s. what did you do while they were out? sleep in front of your lovely logburner? fret with your nose pressed to the window and ear tuned to your phone? teach yourself crochet?

Thimbleanna said...

Very. Cool. And so perfectly illustrated!

Calidore said...

No matter how much we wish time would stop - our children keep growing and will eventually leave us. Gorgeous photos and magnificant poem.

Got to ask though - what did you do while he was gone?

wonderwoman said...

ahh,lovely.

xxxx

6p00d8341c3b1153ef said...

This poem is perfect and very calming for me.

Our daughter turns 18 in June. If I think about it much, I almost hyperventilate. I'll keep this poem in mind.